Generally, when parents have joint custody, they must agree on major medical decisions regarding their child. If there is an "emergency," the parent exercising his/her time can take necessary steps to address the situation and then notify the other parent as soon as possible; however, in a non-emergency situation, the parents must agree. You didn't indicate whether he demands that you seek his permission for each "instance" of treatment, or for the overall treatment protocol; however, I can understand (given your profession) why you would be frustrated by his behavior. If he believes you are making an unsound decision regarding your child's treatment, you might want to consider proposing that the two of you jointly seek out a second opinion to help "break the tie" before taking a matter like this to mediation or (worst case scenario) to the judge.

I am not sure this would be considered a "major" medical decision. There are steps that can be taken to address the disagreement (mediation), and perhaps you would at some point want to consider seeking a change to the legal designation.

We can certainly help you consider and then pursue your options.

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/s/ Rich J. Peters

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