I have been married for 8 months and im in the navy. Ive been station in sicily for the next 3 years and I found out about her messing around with her ex boyfriend before coming out here and I alson found out she has been been doing bad things on video chats while im out on duty. Divorce is up in the air and im not sure if an annulment is still feasable or if we have to go through a full divorce. Also, I wanted to know if I have to pay her also. We were married in my home state of california, but she is a legal resident of north carolina. What is the best thing that I should do?