Legal Question in Family Law in California

Divorce rights

Joint custody is 50/50.But my ex-wife has stipulated what time I have to return my children,and also what times I can call them at, she will not give me a contact telephone number for them after hours in case of an emergency and she has taken them out of the state without my permission many times. Is there any legal means that I can take to have more say in this.She sems to have the upper hand in everything. What can I do? They are miserable with her. I also have understood that I can petition the court for custody because my child is 11 years old.Is this so?


Asked on 5/06/02, 10:22 pm

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E. Daniel Bors Jr. Attorney & Counselor At Law

Re: Divorce rights

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Depending upon whether the existing custody / visitation orders are temporary (pendante lite) or final, and depending on whether the orders were stipulated or adjudicated, you may have to show a change of circumstances to have the orders modified. To have the existing orders enforced (as they are) you can bring a contempt of court action against your wife. In either case, see an experienced family law attorney.

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Answered on 5/07/02, 4:52 pm
Edward Lindley Edward Lindley, Attorney at Law

Re: Divorce rights

I take it that you have been to court on this matter before?

If the situation has worsened you can ask for a modification of the existing court orders, but this is not because the child is 11, or 2, or 17 and a half, but rather becasue the existing arrangement is not working and would not seem to be in the best interest of the child.

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Answered on 5/07/02, 9:32 pm

Re: Divorce rights

Joint custody means that both parents should consult each other on issues concerning the child. For example, school issues, non-emergency medical or psychological care, etc. The day-to-day issues are the decision of the custodial parent at the time.

With regards to the other matters you have inquired about, the judgment of dissolution or temporary order would normally spell out the parenting plan (visitation schedule) and that would be what governs. As to the issue of taking the children out of state, again that should be an issue that is set forth in the judgment or other order.

Yes, you can petition the court for custody but there has to be a compelling reason (in the best interests of the child(ren)) for the change.

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Answered on 5/07/02, 1:12 pm
Chris Johnson Christopher B. Johnson, Attorney at Law

Re: Divorce rights

You may just need an attorney to "encourage" your ex to keep up her end of the joint custody bargain--she does have to live up to that and also work with you as well.

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Answered on 5/07/02, 3:26 pm


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