On July 2nd I was in a meeting with two of my managers they looked me in my eyes and called me a "cocksucker" right to my face. I felt intimidated and defenseless. I dread going to work now but I can't quit because I have a baby on the way and my wife doesn't make enough at her job to support us both with a child and our dog and cat. I live in Sonoma county California in the town of Sonoma. what can I do to stand up for myself? can I sue for anything?