In the district of columbia in 1999 i and husband divorced i stupidly signed over house. he said he definitely retire at 53 when he was vested. that was the only thing i took from divorce because i wanted daughter to go to good college. not going to happen he has new family. i want to go back to him and say that since he will not retire in near future. i want half of the house that he is not living in and not renting. i never signed over the title to him -- but it is in our divorce agreement. i think he doesn't ask me because he feels guilty. i think i could get him to do it but need help coaching a strategy and preparing a list to present him with.