I obtained an absolute divorce from my ex-husband in March. ( I live in DC and he lives in MD (Prince Georges County). We have a 4 year old daughter; and, are in the middle of a custody case ( in DC). However, I have been planning on moving to NC for many months and he is well aware and has wished me well (via e-mail and over the phone) many times. Now, however, he is telling me that if I move it will be considered kidnapping. I have not told him exactly when, because our relationship has deterioriated rapidly in a few months, but it is before school starts. He is behind thousands of dollars in child support (court ordered); and, rarely sees our daughter now. What can I do?