Re: Good Lawyer?
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"Damages"- The Rule of Thumb: HAVE DIARRHEA OF THE MOUTH!! This is your chance to fully explain how this injury has affected your life and your family's life. Do not stop. You should have been instructed by your lawyer early on to keep a diary or journal about everyday things that have changed, or everyday pains that you have or how you could not go fishing, or how you and your spouse have been fighting because money is tight due too your injury and on and on. Look at that journal to refresh your recollection of these times and lay it on. Because after the deposition, the defense lawyer is going back to his/her office ad they are going to type (in my day we dictated into tapes) the insurance adjuster (or insurer) about the kind of person you are and the story you told. This is called a carrier update letter and you want it to be favorable to you.
In closing, in answer to your question, the answer is a resounding YES!!! Our firm, mainly my partner as I am old and really are in the "marketing" section now than in the litigation side, ALWAYS woodshed the plaintiff. Probably better that it is my partner because I do not know as much as these young whippersnappers!
Some other general rules to follow:
(1) NEVER LIE;
(2) Be kind and polite..."Yes Sir" "No Sir". I am sure you have heard of the old adage:"You get more with honey than you do with _ _ _ _". Well it definitely applies in your deposition, if not to life generally.
(3) If you are unclear what they are asking, ask them to clarify what they are asking;
(4) It's OK to say "I don't know" as an answer to a question. People think they have to know everything. Well, simply put, no one knows everything! Remember another old good Texas saying: "There's never a horse that's never been rode and never a man that's never been throwed";
(5) It's OK to take a break and talk to your lawyer in confidence in another room. Especially if you get flustered;
(6) DO NOT ARGUE WITH OPPOSING COUNSEL. Remember the "honed knife" above. He/she is not on your side and I can assure you that you will ultimately lose any argument and you may say something that will hurt your case; and
(7) Listen to your lawyer. In some jurisdictions "coaching" is tolerated more than others. Your lawyer may be speaking to defense counsel or lodging an objection; is so, listen to what he/she is saying as it may help you get back on track.
G-d Bless and remember that everything has a way in working out if you don't lie.