Legal Question in Family Law in Florida

I recently attended a child support mediation with my children's father, never married (paid & done with lawyers - not through the court-- in an attempt to reach a reasonable agreement without having to go through the lengthy court process). However, it went terrible for me. I ended up worse off after mediation than I did before as I was intimidated & scared as I was constantly told that things would be worse if I went to court (by MY supposed lawyer & the mediator). I felt pressured & just needed it to be over with so that I could get to my children- so assuming that MY lawyer was looking out for my & my children's best interest, I did sign the agreement without fully reading everything in the agreement (the mediation begin around 10 am & wasn't over until about 8 pm- of which I even had to make calls during it to have someone pick up my children from daycare by 6 pm). A number of things were not done fairly- such as our salary calculations & child expenses are incorrect, my current child support order for our first child was only increased by $29/month (plus $180/month for half of daycare throughout the year except during the 2 summer months- since I don't work during the summer) to include our 2nd child. I was told that because he has other children they couldn't give me more than that for our second child. He has 3 other children from 3 different women- & 2 of the 3 other children receive more child support for 1 child than I receive for our 2 children. Also the agreement requires that I now allow him to claim our 2 year for federal taxes every other year until he catches up with his back child support (arrears for our 7 year old), & then he's able to claim him every year after that. (I am a 10 month employee at a school & also do not work during holiday, spring & summer breaks so my federal tax refund is actually used to take care of us during these months/days I do not work). I do not feel I should have to help him catch up his back child support by allowing him to claim a child he's barely seen in the past 2 years. Keep in mind both children have always lived with me & he barely sees them (they go months without seeing him at all & may see him a few times a year with few to no overnights all year- although there is a parenting plan for our 7 year old where he's supposed to have her for 120 days/year). It also says that there will be no retro child support for our 2 year old.

Anyway, I contacted my lawyer & told them there were a few errors & there were many things that I feel were not fair & should be modified (plus I was pressured, intimidated & scared by both him & the mediator so it was not impartial at all) - so I didn't not want the agreement filed as I wanted to go through the court directly instead. The agreement & the mediation was solely to help him & did not consider the best interest of our children. However, he told me I signed it & there was basically nothing I could do at this point. So, I'm asking, what exactly can I do? Can I go to the court & file my own child support petition (there is only a court order child support order for our first child, not our 2 year old-- which this new agreement would add)? Please help? How can this be appealed/rejected? Please help!

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