My great grandfather is in ICU right now, and we had printed and signed power of attorney papers offline last year. Well his step sons wife went into his house and stole both copies of those papers and is trying to say since we dont have them or a written will, pour over , etc than they are putting him in a nursing home. The hospital took a copy, but I just want to make sure we have everything we need. What forms do we need so I have control of his medical and financial before and after he passes? As this is what he wants. I am also the beneficary on 3 life insurance policies he has.