My ex and I have been divorced for 5 years and we are both remarried to other people. I have several questions and need some expert advice. We share joint legal custody of our son but with me as the primary parent. I have tried my best to be civil and have tried working together for our sons sake but it's just not working. We cannot talk or text without there being an issue. Do I need to get a lawyer to get a court ordered mediation? Or should I? Does our son have to go over for his every other weekend visits when his dad is not there? Do I have to put his dad and stepmom on the pick up list for school? I'd just like some advice about what I need to do.