I have a QDRO in place, the person in charge of the pensions at my ex husband's place says they don't honor QDROS. What can I do?
2 Answers from Attorneys
You don't have a QDRO in place. A QDRO is drafted by a lawyer who will first get the pension plan approval as to content, and THEN it is submitted to the Judge (pension plans can't refuse QDROs but they do have input into content). It sounds like you messed up and had a judge sign one before getting it worked out, and you'll need your lawyer to untangle this.
You need to speak with an attorney. This is too complicated to attempt on your own.