I am an RA at a college. My head RA request that I meet with her privately in her room at 8 o'clock at night . I do not feel comfortable doing this and told her this but she still says I have to do it . Does that infringe on my right any? It seems lie sexual harrassment and what if she goes and tells someone I raped her while I was in her room ? Just the fact that I was in her room that late would not look good for me.