I have been trying to obtain a divorce from a woman from whom I've been estranged for almost eight years, due to many grounds, including adultery on her part. I live in Illinois, but she has usurped custody and guardianship of our nine year old son, and he has been living with her in Kentucky during this timetime. I pay child support, but don't get to see my son unless any sacrifices to be made are made by me. She has done next to nothing all these years to facilitate a healthy relationship between my son and me, and is actively impeding any and all of my efforts to obtain this divorce, while actively living an adulterous lifestyle with a man who just got out of jail last year. I seek a low cost or free divorce from her, as I have justifiable grounds, and feel she is at fault. I also have a very meager part time income, and seek relief for that reason also. What can I to help my situation?