I have 3 children with my husband. We are getting divorced, and have been separated for 4 years. He only sees the kids a few hours one day a week but is wanting them 50/50. I would like him to have them every other weekend and one evening a week. He works until 8pm each night and thinks his girlfriend will be able to get them and have them most of "his time". Would a judge really grant him that? I believe my kids should be with me or their dad not his girlfriend. If he can't have them I will, not her.