I live in Ramsey County, MN. My boyfriend and his ex wife have joint custody of their kids in which he gets them weekends, she has them weekdays. Ever since the divorce about 2 months ago, we have ended up with the kids on several weekdays, including having them last week Wednesday through Sunday, which has happened a few times already. Anyways, when we came and got the kids on Wednesday, she had told us we could have a weekend off and she would give him his weekly child support back ($115) She calls last night saying he still has to get the kids this weekend, she meant a weekend in the FAR future and she was only giving us $50. Neither of us care about getting the money back, we just care about getting our weekend off that was promised. The ex wife says she's going to call the courts today. If the arrangement was all verbal, is she going to get her way again, or will she have to take them since we've had them at least 3 extra weekdays in the last 2 weeks, which is against the arrangement?