We married in June 1993. The paperwork from my 1st divorce came in Oct 1993. She said we're not legally married. We stay & live together, having 4 kids. In June 2007 we renew our vows, having a full wedding in the church. We move to Georgia in Oct 2008. She cheats on me, forcing me to leave in Feb 2009. She marrys again June 26, 2009. .*Can I sue her for divorce and custoddy of my kids? Oh...She is about to go to jail...again for embezzlement/or theft. She left NY with an active warrant for her arrest.