i live in ny and have joint legal and physical custody of a 3 year old. I moved to upstate ny from long island with mothers consent almost two years ago. recently she has not come to pick up the child as we have been alternating visitation every two weeks. she has since filed a petition in court saying i didnt the follow the court order by not bringing him back to her or sending her money to pick him up. what are my rights and is this my responsibility. the court order does not state who picks up and drops up and we had a verbal arrangement.