As a toddler, I was filmed with my younger sibling performing suggestive acts in the nude by a family friend. I clearly remember that it wasn't filmed for a good reason (family event, occasion, etc and we happened to be nude) it was done in private, and was definitely not good. Around twenty years later, I now have the opportunity to confront the individual and I don't know if I should take a legal route (due to something along the lines of statute of limitations or something) or risk confronting them and having him deny or destroy the evidence. What should I do? What can be done legally? What would the best course of action be?