My lawyer missed my pretrial dui court date...cops showed up at my parents house looking for me. Should I fire my lawyer? If I threaten to contact state bar will I get my refund? My husband and I haven't been pleased even before this happened what with his lack of communication with us. He's a nice guy but I don't want excuses I want him to simply show up for court dates and answer my phone calls.what's the best way to proceed from here?