My husband has been paying child support for 8 years for his daughter. They don't know each other bc the mother of the child as made it clear from the beginning it was her way or no way. My husband and I have 3 kids of our own and we've been married for 9 years . My question is , is it possible to go to court to get visitation rights since its been so long? We definitely want to start off slow for the sake of the child. But we would like to see her and have her around more.