Grandmother lives in North Carolina.I live in CA.Gran is remarried. She wrote me a check so I could ''hold'' some money in case of emergency. Husband finds out: he is vicious w/anger. He has demanded that I return the $, has threatened me w/lawsuits, police action, (has already filed a police report in NC) Calls me at all hours w/threats and insults. Husband is alcoholic (common knowledge). No word from Grandmother. What action should I take?