I have a joint home equity loan with someone I was supposed to marry but did not. He moved out in March of 2010 and the house is in my name solely now but we still have this combined loan for which he is primary on and I am secondary. We did use a lot of the loan on the home for repairs and such but not all of it. We purchased a van for him and he has paid me back for that but feels he owes no more so he quit paying as of January of 2013. Unfortunately we took out lump sums from time to time and used it on various things so there is no good paper trail. Is there any hope of me being able to get him to be responsible for even just a portion of the loan?