Virginia  |  Family Law

Since the child was born of the marriage, he currently has all the parental rights with respect to this child that any parent would normally have until a court of proper jurisdiction rules otherwise.

And, if you provably committed adultery, your husband could charge you with that as a so-called fault ground for divorce, if he chose to.

Adultry must be proven and is sometimes difficult to prove. It can affect the equitable distribution and support. Do a paternity test.