My ex is 12,000 arrears cs, he doesn't excercise to the fullest his visitation, the kids have spent 1 week spring break, no more than 28 days during the summer with him, and I usually give him my xmas time as well as his.(this is his choice) However, he is a cop, he is married and seems to think that is enough to take the kids away from me. He cannot prove that I am unfit. My question is, he wants the kids for the summer, I am okay with that, even if he didn't give me written notice by April 1st. I have always tried to get him to see the kids more, my question is what are his chances of taking them from me, and what state would have juristiction over a custody hearing? the original custody was established in Texas. My fear is that somehow he will use me allowing him to have the kids for the whole summer against me. Thank you... any and all information will be appreciated. Tn has told me he would have to come here, however, other's have said if he has them, he can file there, even if it is visiting. There is a mutual agreement in our decree that says if we mutually agree, we can go by that for visitation, instead of what is court ordered. Thanks again.