Legal Question in Family Law in Florida

Court Ordered Custody

Is it possible to get a court ordered custody settlement to force my ex-husband and father of my children to take custody and care for my 15 year old son. I have been begging him for years to take his son because he has needed his father during these difficult growing years. He has not paid a dime of child support for over a year now and does not adhere to any of the visitation or support arrangements established 8 years ago. My son is out of control and I can no longer control or discipline him. The only person he respects or listens to is his father. I am desperate now, please help!!!!


Asked on 1/13/09, 1:21 pm

1 Answer from Attorneys

Re: Court Ordered Custody

Greetings. Thank you for allowing me to respond. Based on your question, it appears that you have already obtained a dissolution (divorce) order/judgment that outlines custody, visitation and child support amongst other things.

Generally a settlement cannot occur unless you and your husband agree. Under the facts presented, it appears that the husband does not want to take custody of your son.

Some options (but not all):

-You can file a SUPPLEMENTAL PETITION TO MODIFY CUSTODY OR VISITATION AND OTHER RELIEF, found in Florida Rules of Family Law Procedure, Form 12.905(a) and request a custody change. If you do this, there most likely will be a mediation before a final hearing on this matter. A mediation is "closed door" private opportunity for you and your husband to work this out.

-HOWEVER, if the father does not want to take custody of the child, then it is possible that the court would appoint a guardian ad litem (GAL) for the child. The GAL represents the best interests of the child and could make a recommendation as to what is best for the child, which could be to give either you or your husband custody. ALSO, beware that if the GAL believes that the child is in danger, he/she could recommend that the child be deemed a dependent child and then possibly, the Department of Children and Families (DCF) could get involved and possibly seek to place the child into foster care and/or protective custody.

-If DCF gets involved, it really opens up the door for several court hearings, involving many lawyers and the outcomes are sometimes very unpredictable.

There are other options and issues that you have presented that I have not fully explained because I have a 300 line limit. So, my response does not represent all options available and all possible outcomes.

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Answered on 1/15/09, 3:13 pm


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