I am in the process on seeking a divorce, we have no kids, no property, no debt. My Ex-wife to be is requesting $10000 for a visa bill which has already been paid, do I have to give this money ?
That makes no sense UNLESS this is the situation: The card was a joint account and had a balance of $20,000.00 which she paid off using her own money. She would now want half. Short answer - tell her no, its been paid.
Depends. Was this to benefit you?
Do not do that, consult with a lawyer.