in the divorce it states that my x husband gets the kids when i go to iraq. when i go and my new husband has the kids, can my x husband come by and just take the kids, knowing i gave my husband power of attorney and wanting him to keep the kids due to the concern of my kids wellbeing with my x. do my x have the right to just take the kids away?please help
If you have a court ORDER, read it and see what it says. If you are asking whether you can ignore it and come up with a different plan, the answer is no.
The situation will be governed by the terms of your final decree. Consult with a local attorney.
You can't write a document and tell a judge you plan to ignore his order.