father does not adhere to court visitationmay show up 6-8 months apart. Records childrens conversations with sole custodial parent. Children are 10 and ask not to go with father on visitation.Ordered visitations Holidays and every other weekend. Lives out of state Does not adhere to state ordered child support. Any Suggestions
File a motion for contempt for failure to pay support and to modify visitation. He may be waiting for this to see if you will agree to drop support if he agrees to end visitation. You must know that the child support is a right of the children not you.