Legal Question in Family Law in New York

Seeking divorce, property issue

I moved out of our marital home 3months ago with the children, my husband is still there. I wish to get a divorce, but i think the house is going to be an issue, his name and his mothers name are on the deed and mortgage, mine is not, she does not live there. We have been married 19yrs and purchased the house 4yrs into the marriage from my mother inlaw, what am i entitled to if i can get him to sell, or buy me out if i can do that? How long do i have to act on this? My belongings are still there, and he has his girlfriend staying weekends there, can i move my things out that we agreed upon before i file for divorce? Thank in advance. I cannot afford a lawyer at this time, and need things to be done fairly quickly and as peaceful as possible.


Asked on 10/10/04, 7:01 am

1 Answer from Attorneys

Phroska L. McAlister PHROSKA LEAKE McALISTER

Re: Seeking divorce, property issue

You don't have any time to waste. Since your name his not on the house or Mortgage?, your interest in the house is not secure. It can be dissipated, by your husband w/o warning at any time.

Get a lawyer!

If you think the "house is going to be an issue," it Will be; and you will Need a lawyer. It's doubtful the court will allow you to proceed w/o one or appoint one for you, because you and your husband have assets, in the form of the house.

In the interim, You have the right to Petition Family Court, for child support, from your spouse, if you have a child under 21 years, that requires support.

Or, your husband can agree, in writing, to pay child support, w/o a court order. HE can arrange to have the support automatically taken from his wages and sent directly to you, via his personnel dept garnishment.

You also have the right to apply for spousal support/alimony, if you need support from your husband and he has the ability to pay.

He again, can agree in writing, to pay spousal support for a period of time via automatic deduction .

You may, with your husband's cooperation, consent and agreement, remove your personal and other property from your marital home, as soon as you are able/w/o prejudice to any other rights you may have to the premise.

W/O his consent, with police assistance, you can remove your and your children's personal property. If you need the items, get them out before they are lost and destroyed.

The least you would likely be entitled to for your interest and share of the premises would be 1/2 of 50% of the value and equity in the house. To wit: if house sold & nets $100,000.00, your interest might be $25,000.00. It can be argued that you are entitled to more. However, if you delay, you could be left with nothing.

Good luck,

Phroska L. McAlister,ESQ

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Answered on 10/10/04, 1:08 pm


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