Legal Question in Family Law in Oregon
child support $$ - ex living with new guy
My papers aren't final yet, we get along reasonably well, we're trying to do this mutually. Does my child support obligation change since my ex just moved in with a new guy (he makes $$$$$ compared to me)? How about if they marry? Thank you for any help!
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Child support $$ - ex living with new guy.
YOUR MESSAGE:
My papers aren't final yet, we get along reasonably well, we're trying to do this mutually. Does my child support obligation change since my ex just moved in with a new guy (he makes $$$$$ compared to me)? How about if they marry?
RESPONSE:
Whose child is it? Yours or the guy with whom your wife is now residing? Stated differently, the obligation to support the child is a PARENTAL obligation, not an obligation of non-parents such as new spouses, new significant others or new residential partners. So your soon-to-be-exs new boyfriend (and all of the money he makes) has no effect on your obligation to support your child. And the situation does not change if she gets married to the guy.
By the way, what would/should happen after you are divorced if you then get married to a woman who is a millionaire and has a monthly income of, lets say, $20,000 per month? How would you respond to your ex-wifes argument that given your new wifes income (His new wife makes $$$$$ compared to me!), you should be required to pay more child support? Isnt this the same logic as your argument for lowering your support because of her new mans superior income?
One exception to foregoing discussion: Under the Oregon Child Support Guidelines, the support amount calculated by the formula is presumed to be the correct amount of the obligation. But this presumption of correctness may be challenged and overcome (rebutted) upon consideration of certain factors set out in the statute, if the judge concludes that the guideline amount of support is unjust or inappropriate. The judge can the adjust the support obligation, either by way of increase or decrease, so that the final result is a dollar amount that is, in the opinion of the judge, just and proper under all the circumstances.
One of the rebuttal factors is The financial advantage afforded a parent's household by the income of a spouse or another person, or persons, with whom the parent lives in a relationship similar to husband and wife or domestic partnership.
Note that it is not the INCOME of the new spouse or residential partner that directly comes into play. Rather, what is considered is the financial advantage afforded a parent's household as a result of the new partners income. This gets to be somewhat tricky. Each case must be analyzed on its own unique facts. But as a starting point, the question to be answered is: To what dollar extent has the parents cost of maintaining a household for the child decreased because of the income of the new residential partner?
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