Both of my parents have dementia and live at home and want to remail at home as long as possible. I have power of attorney for both. A sitter has come highly recommended by sevral church friends that have used her in the past and she is a perfect fit for my parents but she works on her own and wants to be paid in cash. What is the best way to write a check for cash to pay her out of my parents bank accounts so it will not be questioned later? Do I write it to the order of CASH? Do I write it to the order of the banks name? Do I have the sitter sign a receipt book?