Legal Question in Family Law in California

My daughter is pregnant by a man from Macedonia. He has been gone for the last 7 months, but she does not know if he went back home or if he stayed in the USA illegally since his Visa would have expired and he should have returned back in Nov. 2015. She planned on not putting his name on the birth certificate, but with the birth just around the corner and hearing so much about foreigners taking their children out of our country what is the best way for her to protect her and her child from this legally. My thought is immediately get court ordered custody, but that would mean putting his name on the b/c. What is her safest legal option?


Asked on 5/09/16, 9:54 am

1 Answer from Attorneys

She is better of giving the child her last name and not identifying the father. That would require him to file a paternity case to establish that he is the father before he could even contemplate doing anything else. A custody order would issue as part of the paternity case. He would then have to get your daughter's consent, or a court order, to get a passport for the child, and your daughter would have to accompany him or provide a notarized consent for him to get a visa for the child or to leave the country with the child. There is no guarantee that a foreign born parent can never game the system and illegally remove a child, but what I have outlined would put the most legal barriers possible in the way of him doing it.

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Answered on 5/09/16, 10:14 am


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