Legal Question in Family Law in California

divorce..

Divorce wrapping up.

Actually the court says we are.

I have agoraphobia and panic

attacks bad. So when I had to

go to court I had to pay

my Therapist to help get me

there it's bad. I am on

medication and going to

Physiologist so he and his

lawyers are quite a where of

this. And yet when i am not

fast enough to go have

something signed( some other

place besides my home).

Then the threats come '' I'll

have to take you to court''

''You'll have to pay half ''

He knows I have no money to

do that, and I have asked him

to stop.

I told him you guys are like

blackmailing me with the two

things, my panic attacks and

agoraphobia and knowing I

have no money to make me do

something for 30 years had,

and under a Doctors care for it.

Can I have someone send them

a big scary notice to stop this

pressure. There handling this

with a deliberate crudeness and

unnecessary way. Patients and

understanding would more

productive.

I have had to go more to the

Doctors and take more

medication, cry, can't sleep,.

My Lawyer does not send

strong worded notices and so

they continue.

Do I have any rights as sufferer

of these issues, and do they

have a right to use them

against me.


Asked on 4/08/09, 3:47 am

1 Answer from Attorneys

Colin Greene Russakow, Greene & Tan, LLP

Re: divorce..

Anyone can send the "I'll take you to court" "threats." Then yes, you can send back whatever strong worded letter you want. But, I don't know that it's a question of sending them a strong letter as much as it is addressing and resolving whatever issues are preventing the completion of your case. What are the issues, what are the sticking points? You need to get to the finish line and there is only 2 ways to do it: (1) you and your spouse's written agreement; or (2) court order, which only comes after a hearing.

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Answered on 4/08/09, 9:35 am


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