Legal Question in Family Law in California

My fiance and I moved into a different county back in March. He has a daughter with his ex-wife but she primarily lives with the mother and also goes to school near her mother's house. We get her every other weekend. We had to move closer to my mother in Riverside County becasue A)She provides child care which we could not afford to our child together and B) becasue my fiance's work schedule took him to the area. His ex-wife is now trying to fight us leaving San Diego County. We did not attempt to change my stepdaughter's school or change her address in any way from her mother's address. I feel this is unfair considering why we actually had to move and do not feel it will hold up. Will this be easy for us to fight? We also cannot afford a lawyer to help us. We are not at the poverty level by any means but a lawyer is definitely not something we can handle in our budget. Any advice is great.


Asked on 11/03/14, 1:38 pm

2 Answers from Attorneys

Michael Hulshof Michael Hulshof

The parent who has primary custody of the minor child has the presumptive right to move the child outside of county. Your scenario is a bit confusing but it seems like you have visitation and the ex-wife is the primary custodian. If this is the case and you have been able to do weekend visitations for the past 6-9 months I think you will be fine. Move-Away issues are with the primary custodian. Lastly even if you were the primary custodian she cannot force you and your husband to stay in San Diego. The issue would be whether or not a custody modification needs to be made due to your move. In this case you are stating you have weekend visitation and you continued to have weekend visitation. That's a pretty good case that the status quo works. I would however speak to an attorney in your area that knows the local rules and judges.

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Answered on 11/03/14, 2:10 pm
Phillip D. Wheeler, Esq. Phillip D. Wheeler, Attorney At Law

If you are the parent who has what is called "primary custody" then you can most likely move the child wherever you like. I just had a client do this herself. She had primary custody, moved to London. Of course I am just offering free advice: a local attorney might find other issues that neither you nor I are aware of.

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Answered on 11/03/14, 4:45 pm


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