I was just sent a cease and desist letter from my stalker abusive ex. He's the one who has been stalking me and is now using his best friend who is a bankruptcy lawyer to find out my address to drive by my house and locate private information about me. I need to know what to do because his friend is abusing his power and trying to pin this on me as I have not contracted him in years! Should I file an order if protection? Can I have his lawyer/friend also be served with a cease and desist? His lawyer also knows info about me because he handled my divorce. This is just unreal.