Legal Question in Family Law in India

naem: ANEESH TRIVEDI AGE 40

WIFE:KAVITA TRIVEDI AGE 33

Wife living in her mohter house having two sis one is MCA not married 28 yrs and next one is in 12th

father expired mother is 60yrs no other relatives who help them

facts:

[1] married on 11dec12,without dowry adarsh vivah

[2] she left me due to ego 0n 24 april 09 giving 155 notice in police station.

[3] i went to took her back but i was beaten by her father and insulted on 3 may 2009.

[4] we start talking 20/5/09

[5] some hard talk is going on since 19/07/09

i went to sp office complain registers it is sent to paramarsh kendra by sp.

[6] hearing is on 9sept 09 but on 25/8/09 false 498A was filed and i was arrested for three day now on bail

even in media she spread that i m terrorist etc etc

[7] mutual aggreement offer come from her side i refused/

[8] i am facing the dates but talk on cell started with her 20/11/09

[9\ she come to me and we went for outing for a week in 28/12/09

[10] she come back in same house

[11] i won sec 9

we came to new place 28/3/10

[12] she is pregnant in aug 10 mean time she made drama in may September and October

[13]her father die in mystery death on 22/3/11

[13] she delivered a baby on 5/5/11

[14] her mother came on 16/5/11 and went 22/5/11

[`15] on 23/5/11 she talk abusive harsh word on next day lock the door from inside and i was out whole night

[16] on 27/5/11 she went to relative house with baby in gown

[17] she went to sdop oral complain i was called for paramarhs but i had fear that i may get arrested as before so didnt appeared\

[18]her mother and sister came and she went with them on 8/6/11

i called her lot she not allowing to see me my baby i miss her since 8/6/11

now again situation become worse she is telling harsh word and abusive language and third class talk just like i sleep with othes etc you also go to others.

[19] i talk with her 22/7/12 she told mere tarkash me abhi teer baki hai mai to bachi ke bada hone ka intezar kar rahi thi ab khel me maja ayega maine baap khoya antim saans tak ladungi etc etc

now guide what i do when she is with me she is alright i want by daughter back i m out of india now 498a is not charged yet ,

now i m planing to file

a.defamation

b.child custody

c.divorce

just to make her trouble and she know that to file a case is easy but to fight means to suffer

but in that no hope for rejoin as before,i also waste my time and money,

also i may have to alimony for my daughter as she is working i can prove it already i proved it in sec 9.

i need your guidance and also if situation not improved then how to teach her lesson ,

just give this story to media and make drama to highlight

what i do please guide me

aneesh trivedi

thanks,


Asked on 8/25/12, 12:51 am

2 Answers from Attorneys

Global Legist Advocate & Legal Consultants

Hello,

Please try to solve your the matter amicably. Situation are already been worse, we do not suggest to make it more wore. If both of you can not live together it is better to take divorce.

Try to settle amicably on alimony also.

Child is a big responsibility, Do you really want to keep the child. please claim for custody only if you can take care of child and not to harass her as child will suffer for life.

If, still both of you do not want divorce, try not to contact each other and proceed further in your respective lives with harassing each other.

If require go for marriage counselling whether regarding living together or how to live separately peacefully.

For any further enquiry please contact us.

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Answered on 8/25/12, 9:12 am
Aniruddha Pawse Aniruddha.P.Pawse Advocates

If you want to go for divorce than it is better to take divorce by mutual consent. You can get visiting rights for such a small child, custody is almost impossible unless your child is of 8 to 10 years.

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Answered on 9/05/12, 10:21 pm


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