my divorce was done in N.M. I have joint custody of my 3 girls, my ex-husband has ''primary care.'' This past August All 3 of my girls moved in with me in CA. Does this mean I now have primary care? They are happy with me and doing wonderfully in school here they were not doing so well with him. does he have the right to yank them away from me at any time he feels like? he has done it before.