Legal Question in Personal Injury in Massachusetts
Can I sue for PTSD/gaslighting?
I was dating a man who talked about establishing a life with me once his divorce finalized (I met him when he was separated 2 yrs). About a year into our relationship, I found emails (he had given me his password once, but the email was open on the computer) he had exchanged with another woman about buying property and growing old together (she is a millionairre and ex-g.f). He met her at a wedding he attended without me in the 8th month .
He gaslighted me for 5 months... even so far as telling me ''You just dont trust me'' a few hours before he saw her in person once when I asked if there was someone else... and always told me it was all in my head...
He said he wanted to reconcile, and we even did counseling at his suggestion but he broke things off with me just before she came back to the area. I overheard him one night before we broke up, lying to a friend about what happened (ie, downplaying the infidelity and making it sound like I just couldn't get over a ''little 1 month email flirtation'').
I have hardly been able to sleep... feel anxiety all the time... suicidal... almost lost my job until I (embarrassingly) told my boss what was going on... uncontrollable rage... loss of friendships... still waking startled
2 Answers from Attorneys
Re: Can I sue for PTSD/gaslighting?
You have an interesting theory, but you need to recognize that there are a lot of difficulties in such a suit.
First off, though I haven't researched it, I do not believe that our liberal courts in Massachusetts have gone so far as to say that this would fit the law for infliction of emotional distress. The definitions require conduct that is way beyond anything experienced in societal norms.
Second, you will most definitely have to prove that your injuries are severe, and that they come -only- from this relationship. While I don't doubt your statement that all of your symptoms result from the conduct of this man, the defense --will--, and will dig deeply into your history for the purpose of showing it. This will likely only prolong the wounding.
In addition, while you may find an attorney to handle the case on a contingent-fee basis, you will be liable for expenses incurred in a suit. Filing fees, deposition costs, and the expense of producing your personal medical and psychological records could easily run into the thousands. If you do not win or obtain an award by settlement, you will have to repay any costs advanced by your attorney.
: Can I sue for PTSD/gaslighting?
I take a slight offense as to Greg statement about Mass. liberal courts. I disagree.
As far as I can tell from what you said, what you suffered is the tribulations of a relationship with a man who apparently lacked candor. I do not see a cause of action.
I believe it would be throwing good money after an already bad situation.
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