Legal Question in Family Law in Michigan

Moving out

I am 17 years old and live in the state of Michigan. Recently, I spoke with the police officer who works full time at the school I attend. He told me that I may move out when I am 17 years old. Can my parents press charges on the person I choose to live with for harboring a minor? Can the police come get me?

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Asked on 4/25/07, 9:54 pm

2 Answers from Attorneys

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Re: Moving out

You have the right to ask for emancipation, and if you show that you can take cre of yourself, it stands a good chance of being granted. Taking care of yourself does not include shacking up with someone else who will essentially take the place of your parents, --without any legal obligation to do so.

What happens if the relationship doesn't work out. You're homeless. H-O-M-E-L-E-S-S.

You're so close,--why not just wait a year? Unless something terrible is happening to you in your home, chances are you're better off NOT moving in with someone who is clearly older than you.

Can the police come and get you? Yes. Are they likely to do so? Maybe. Are you also likely to end up in juvenile court, probably, if your parents care to push the matter.

You might be better off getting some counseling with your parents to figure out what is the best course.

You can also try mediation at a local mediation center. It might be the best $100 anyone in your family has spent, because you might find that they agree with you, but want to make sure you're going to be alright first. Teens tend to think a fight is the best way, but remember that once you hit 18, they have no more legal responsibility for you.

That's a lot to take on, when you're also trying to manage what appears to be a relationship with someone who has already started his/her own life.

Further, even if the court doesn't do anything, yes your parents can probably make your life miserable, so why go there? The only exception I can imagine is if you are being abused, but even in that case, you're going to need outside support that does not revolve around the person you're moving in with.

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Answered on 4/26/07, 1:13 pm

Re: Moving out

The police officer is not an attorney and should refrain from giving you legal advice.

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Answered on 4/25/07, 10:53 pm


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