Legal Question in Family Law in Texas

Parental custody and restrictions.

My very good friend has been having problems with her family. Mainly her mother. Her mother forces her to do things against her will, although not illegal, it is just out of common courtesy you would ask and oblige if told no. My friend is 16 at the moment. And she is interested in custody. If she were to leave home or was forced to leave, would she be able to attain custody for herslef or would a person over 18 have to assume custody. And if this is the case what if her parents challanged this? My question is mainly what can we do about an over controlling parent. Her father is even under the control of her mother. What legal rights if any does my the 16 year old daughter have.


Asked on 9/12/01, 10:07 pm

1 Answer from Attorneys

Fran Brochstein Attorney & Mediator

Re: Parental custody and restrictions.

First, let me state that I have a teen-ager at hme so I not impartial.

If things are really bad and she is considering running away from home, I would hope that you would encourage your friend to talk to an adult she trusts - like a minister, teacher, relative.

Perhaps the family needs counseling so that everyone can express their concerns in a constructive environment.

The streets are tough and I doubt that she can survive on the streets. No matter how bad things are at home, they are worst on the streets!

I worked with teens that lived on the streets many years ago and believe me they live a rough life. Many end up on drugs, prostitution or dead.

Also, every teen-ager thinks their parents are a pain and controlling. I certainly did when I was 16! I think it is a step in growing up and becoming independent.

If things are really bad, she can try to get another adult to have custody of her until she's 18. However, that person would have to go to court and petition for custody.

Of course, her parents can fight this.

I hope you encourage your friend to talk to an adult she trusts. Maybe her parents don't realize how difficult things are for her at home.

Best of luck!

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Answered on 10/27/01, 10:39 pm


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