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Restraining Order

My mother is 83 and quite ill. My sister continually calls and hounds my mother to give her money. My mother lives in L.A county. My sister (and I) live in Orange county. I have power of attorney and I am the executor of my mother's trust. How do I get a restaining order to prohibit any contact by my sister with my mother.


Asked on 3/08/05, 4:45 pm

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Joel Selik www.SelikLaw.com

Re: Restraining Order

Does your mother want it?

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Answered on 3/08/05, 5:42 pm
Terry A. Nelson Nelson & Lawless

Re: Restraining Order

A restraining order may not be the best solution, it might be diffiult to get, and would certainly cause emotional issues in the family. You could consider getting a conservatorship on your mother, expensive but effective, or you could convince your mother to give you control of her finances and accounts, so that she couldn't write checks, or even have her put you on the accounts as 'two signatures required' for checks. If your mother is no longer competent to care for herself or finances, then conservatorship is called for.

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Answered on 3/08/05, 8:56 pm


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