My ex and I divorced awhile back. After our divorce she stopped working and refuses to work. I'm currently paying $938 a month for child support. Since she does not work, how can she provide for our child? Can I go to court and get custody of our daughter because she is not working? She hasnt worked in 2 years. Also, we have joint legal custody and joint physical custody, however I havent been able to see my daughter unless I travel back to maryland. I'm currently living in California.