Legal Question in Family Law in Missouri

As you indicated, it would be a violation. Courts enter protection orders to prevent violation or the threat of violence. Courts also favor reconciliation and meditation, where appropriat, over litigation. If it is an ex parte order, that means that a court date may already be set for a hearing. Reconciliation can happen then. If you cannot wait, perhaps you could communicate by letter to a third party. (I.E. lawyer, parent, sibling) don't put anything other that you would like to discuss resolving your differences peacebly, and how you might be contacted) Don't try to argue the merits of the protective order, or rehash disputes. That way, she makes an issue if you contacting her, you can show that it was just an invitation to resolve your differences. An invitation that your ex could ignore, if they wish.

Good luck

Good luck

No, violate it and go to jail