I loaned a man I was dating some money so he could return home from a business trip. He promised to pay the money back when he returned to NC. He has failed to answer phone calls or emails. I live in SC and he lives in NC. I do have documentation shwoing where he promised ot pay the money back in full in the form of a conversation on instant message. What do I need to do to get back the money he borrowed including Western Union fees and any fees i accure legally?