I was married for 23 years and had 3 children by my exhusband. I found out that he had an affair for at least the last 5 years of my marriage with a woman who is a co worker of his. She has a history of homewrecking as there is another man who also works with them who has 5 children and he also left his wife for her. She is 33 years old, been married 2 times, lived with 3 men, one of them my ex-husband who moved in with her immediately after he divorced me and denied the affair. I feel that it was planned and he waited until my children were just past the age of 18 so he only pays child support on 1 child now which will only be for a few more months. I was treated very badly and feel that he was abusive to me because he would get angry at her for flirting with other men in front of him all day long then would come home frustrated and accusing me of doing these things. I was completely faithful for 23 years and did nothing but raise his children and cook,clean, and carry a full time job. I put my career on back burner and worked out of my home. I wondered if I have any grounds for lawsuit. His company did nothing about it when I informed them of this affair.