I have an order for temporary spousal support in the state of california for a same sex marriage that ended after 16 months. I moved out of state and my ex falsified documents saying I was served for contempt of court for non payment of the spousal support. Because I did not know about the hearing, she won the contempt of court order and approx $6000 in back support. That is how things stand at the moment. I currently live in out of state and can not afford to hire an attorney to get this dismissed. I have not been working in the past year and a half and am now going to work. Can my wages get garnished for this even if I live in a state that doesn't recognize same sex marriage?