Legal Question in Family Law in California

You have not provided enough information to provide an informed response. The age of your son is a factor that must be taken into account. The fact that you sister is a social worker may give your ex an advantage. Don't allow her work as a social worker to become a major factor. Just continue to proceed as though she was not a social worker. Concentrate on your relationship with your child. Be careful not to give him the impression that you are looking for certain information from him. The facts that they are discussing the court action with him is a violation of the local standard for Santa Clara County. As to his sleeping with them that may or may not be a problem. It depends upon his age, and how often he sleeps with them. You should be discussing this with your attorney.