I'm a 29 year old male, single, no children. I don't ever want children and therefore want to get a vasectomy. My research shows me that many doctors will refuse to do the operation for someone my age without children. If I go to the doctor's to set up the operation, and he refuses to do it, do I still have to pay the $20 copay when they will not do the operation? I feel that if this happens, I should be paid $20 for them wasting my time! My scheduled meeting with the urologist is in 2 weeks and I do not want to waste my time and $20 copay if he is going to refuse to do the operation.