Legal Question in Family Law in California

23 Year Marriage, Husband Cheating 10+ Years

My parents have been married for over 20 years and for the past 10 years, my mother has confided in me that my father is cheating on her. It began with phone calls, progressed to internet chats/cell phone texts and currently, my father is--name removed--consultant and completely unaccountable for his whereabouts 90% of the time. It is very obvious that he has and has had--name removed--double life for quite some time. The worst part about it is my mother has only confronted him on her suspicions--name removed--few times, each of which he turns on her (''It's YOUR problem, not mine.''). He is causing her mental and emotional damage and my 11 year old sister is still in the home. What are her options? She feels as--name removed--receptionist she won't be able to support herself and my sister if she leaves. What can she do? What can I do to help my mom get on her feet and point her in the right direction?


Asked on 2/03/09, 4:27 pm

2 Answers from Attorneys

Lyle Johnson Bedi and Johnson Attorneys at Law

Re: 23 Year Marriage, Husband Cheating 10+ Years

Your mom needs to consult with an attorney regarding her rights and options.

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Answered on 2/05/09, 12:25 pm
henry lebensbaum Law Offices of Henry Lebensbaum (978-749-3606)

Re: 23 Year Marriage, Husband Cheating 10+ Years

She is the adult; she needs to decide if legal action meets her needs.

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Answered on 2/06/09, 5:54 pm


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