Legal Question in Family Law in Florida

Trial Divorces

It has been a year and I'm still not

divorced.Would I be better off going

to trial and let a judge decide? I have a 15 yr old son.He has worked

for County and is vested with about

650,00 in the FRS system.I know I'm entitled to half of that.He has

never complied with the last part of

the discovery.I watch kids in my home and only made about 10,000.

dollars.I have tried to settle this he

keeps wanting this and that.We have been separated for 1+yrs now. Can I just say sell it all and

split what is left?He whited out some things on his first discovery

and it had lots of sketchy things in

it.I turned over everything that was

required.This has ben going on for to long,I'm not asking for more than I deserve after 26+yrs of marriage.I need to know if I should

get a more agressive attorney.I helped with him getting a degree and everything.If I say sell and split

it down the middle like FL divorce

law requires,will we stiil have to have a trial.I don't think he wants to go to trial because he said if I do

not to ever speak to him again.I

think he thinks I'll have a better

chance with the judge.I just need

some kind of insight as to where to

go from here.I'm sorry this is so long.


Asked on 2/11/08, 1:45 pm

2 Answers from Attorneys

Robert Roemer Robert Roemer

Re: Trial Divorces

This is a complex situation. I would suggest you e-mail me your phone number to schedule a telephonic consultation to discuss the matter in greater detail.

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Answered on 2/12/08, 1:14 pm
James Hart The Hart Law Firm, P.A.

Re: Trial Divorces

I assume that you have been to mediation? Is he currently providing you with any type of support? The difficult aspect to this is that you would be entitled to a presumption of permanent alimony based on the length of marriage, but I can't tell based on the information you provide whether he has the ability to pay you alimony.

Splitting the assets is the easy part (provided you know where everything is). Your attorney should be requesting permanent alimony, which may be where the hiccup is.

It will be more expensive for you to hire another lawyer, so make 100% certain that you want to fire your current attorney first. It never hurts to get a second opinion from another lawyer either - without firing the first attorney.

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Answered on 2/11/08, 2:33 pm


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